Success

Is Modern Culture Ruining Childhood? Having children or working close with children in this present time and age can never be compared to the days of the past. Anyone who has the responsibility of raising children can easily agree to the fact that there are a lot of dramatic changes in the modern days, which have been ignited by modern culture. Modernity is an important aspect of the lives of humans. Historians agree to the fact that it began in the 19th century and its main aim was to make the society a better place in terms of science. Modernization has its roots in Western countries. This is the reason why Americans and the Europeans have been on the move in ensuring that the world is aligned with them. Many children, due to modernization have had access to basic education. Many of them have been taught using educational models that have been based on modernity hence acquired the modern culture, which has had a huge influence on their childhood. Childhood is being "po...

Every day we renew our determination to be unattached. We cast our eyes back and look at the past objects of our love and attachment, and feel how every one of them made us miserable. We went down into the depths of despondency because of our "love"! We found ourselves mere slaves in the hands of others, we were dragged down and down! And we make a fresh determination: "Henceforth, I will be master of myself; henceforth, I will have control over myself." But the time comes, and the same story once more! Again the soul is caught and cannot get out. The bird is in a net, struggling and fluttering. This is our life.t is very difficult, but we can overcome the difficulty by constant practice. We must learn that nothing can happen to us, unless we make ourselves susceptible to it. I have just said, no disease can come to me until the body is ready; it does not depend alone on the germs, but upon a certain predisposition which is already in the body. We get only that for ...

 According to wikipedia, Mental health is the level of psychological wellbeing or an absence of mental illness.It is the state of someone who is "functioning at a satisfactory level of emotional and behavioural adjustment". Simply summing up this all philosophy, according to our society if someone thinks and acts like everyone around him than that person is termed as a normal being otherwise that person is termed as mentally retarded. Acc. to a research a normal human brain works up to a capacity of 4-4.5% so if a person's brain works up to that capacity he will be termed as a normal human but if his brain works to a capacity of 7% and he acts curiously and asks uncommon question then he is termed as mentally ill. Don't beleive me. Wait I have many proofs. Starting from Albert Einstien , Thomas edison, Nikola tesla, stephen hawking etc.. and the list goes on. These were some of the personalities whose brain's usage capacity was More then 4.5% and hence they w...

Kuch bhi ho sakta hai Ek dhoti pehnne wala, haath me laathi pakar kr agar ek watan aazad kara sakta hai to kuch bhi ho sakta hai. 27 saal jail me rehne ke baad agar Nelson Mandela ussi watan ka president ban sakta hai to kuch bhi ho sakta hai. Harvard University ka dropout, Billgates agar computer ki duniya ka betaaj baadshah ban sakta hai to kuch bhi ho sakta hai Ek flop newspaper cartoonist, Walt Disney agar Digital media ka baadshah ban sakta hai to kuch bhi ho sakta hai. Railway platform par chai bechne wala NArendra Modi agar Prime Minister of India ban sakta hai to kuch bhi ho sakta hai. Sabzi market me sabzi bechne wala Nawazuddin Siddiquie agar one of the most versatile actor ban sakta hai to kuch bhi ho sakta hai. Ek waiter  Akshay kumar agar 3rd biggest action hero ban sakta hai to kuch bhi ho sakta hai. Ek wrestler The Rock agar highest paid actor ban sakta hai to kuch bhi ho sakta hai Agar footpath par sone wala Shahrukh Khan duniya ka sab se bara movi...

Do good and good shall come to you. We all have heard and learnt to do good to others but have you ever spent time to think why. Why should we do good to others?, Why should we be kind to others?, Why should we help others? Let me tell you the answer. The answer is a simple and old quotation "The good you do comes back to you, the evil you do remains with you". It means the good we do comes back to us in some unrecognizable ways and the evil we do remains with us for all lifetime.The good we do blesses not only us but to others also and the evil we do entraps only us and harms only us. Let me tell you a short tale. Once upon a time there was an old lady who always used to make an extra "chapati" for a hunchback man who daily used to visit her for alms.the hunchback never used to say thank you.After receiving alms he used to say" The good you do comes back to you, the evil you do remains with you". The lady was irritated by this response from that ...

                                 Never hold on to a problem for a long time. Never hold on to a problem for a long time. If there is a problem there will definitely exist a solution because everything in this world exists in a pair with something else. As goes a famous universal law of physics that “Forces in nature are always found in pair. To be precise: “An action force is always accompanied by a reactional force.” So if there is a problem there will definitely exist a solution. IF you just hold on it for a long time you will just be hurting yourself and no one else. Let’s take a simple example, just imagine that you are holding a glass of water in your hand with your arm stretched. After 10 minutes you will still have a potential to hold it in its place, after 30 minutes you will be tired and will be feeling pain in your arm, and after an hour finally your arm will be numb and you won’t b...

The Change  Everyone around this globe has different mindset so they have different opinions, ideas, point of views, perspectives, thoughts etc…Everyone wants to shape the world according to his ideas and wants to have a perfect life. I too want to change something in this world; that is none other than our own educational system because even great scientists and inventors like Edison and Einstein too hated their educational system. But to change something in this world first of all we need to change ourselves. “When we change, the world changes. The key to all changes is in our inner transformation-a change of our hearts and minds. This is human revolution. We all have the power to change. When we realize this truth, we can bring forth that power anywhere, anytime, and in any situation.                                ...

Let me ask you a question, Will You Love to Die While "Being in a Stressful Condition" or "While Doing Something That You Love The Most"? Make Your Choice. What will You prefer. Always remember enjoy every moment of your life, always tell yourself to enjoy each and every moment as the last moment of your life and one day you will certainly be right. Just ask yourself another question that , If Today will be the last day of YOUR LIFE will you be doing all that crap you are about to do or will You be Doing the things You love The most. Even Steve Jobs used to ask the same question from himself, as he believed Every moment is the moment to be celebrated. Allow me to narrate a short story, Once upon a time a girl along with her father was walking to a toy shop and suddenly it started to rain then all the people started to find shelter so did the girl and her father.They both took shelter under a tree along with few other people. Some of those people were blaming r...

Having Faith in you and believing in yourself is the first step of success. Remember that the people around you want to see you having a lower standard than them. They don't want you to achieve success, they won't encourage you, and they will just try their best to degrade you, criticize you and discourage you. But you just need to have faith in yourself. If you will have faith in yourself than you can even win the hardest battles of life. The people around you will first laugh at you, then they will see you achieving your goals, then they will criticize you and in end will look at you as their inspiration. ALL this will happen if you just believe in yourself, have faith in yourself .

             Who will cry when you die? “When you were born you cried while the world rejoiced, so live your life in such a way that when you die the whole world cries while you rejoice.”                                        ---Robin Sharma Waking up early in the morning by 7 a.m., rushing to your job by 8 a.m.,returning from your respective institution by 5/6 p.m with your tired and exhausted body and brain, shirt with sweat and dirt, dirty shoes and few files in your hands. Then having dinner by 8p.m and going to bed by 9p.m. Take a 2 minutes time and think that “Are you really living your life fully for 70 years or living a same day for 70 years?” Is a high paying job everything? Is money the everything? You just waste your who...

What should we prefer “Sympathy” or “Empathy”? WE all are familiar with the word Sympathy, so today I will introduce you to Empathy. Empathy is the ability to not only detect what others feel but also to experience that emotion yourself. Empathy is an act of understanding the feelings of others, be it their pain, happiness, warmth, gratitude etc...It is said that no human being can ever be called a human unless he learns the fact of Empathy. It’s only a factor that reminds us who we are and our purpose of being here. It’s only animals who don’t feel the pain of other animals, only the human has such quality. All of us are familiar with a story of a lame girl who couldn’t play with children of her age due to her broken leg but was always eager to play with them; her mother was very much concerned about her and was keenly empathized about her feelings. Once when she happens to go out at a pet shop with her daughter where the daughter finds many beautiful pets of the world, while wat...

Most of the people around us fail in life because they listen to people around them who discourage them. These people are no other than our very own family members,close friends and tutors etc..and when we tell them our goals they start acting like the certified philosophers and start telling us we can't achieve what we want and when you will ask them a simple question "WHY" Then believe me 99.999% will answer you the same thing that "because the some random person couldn't do that, thats why i told you that you will also be not able to do that". So that sounds funny. Let me share a story with :" Once upon a time there were two boys( aged 10 and 15 years old)playing near a well far from their village, one evening while playing the elder boy fell in well and was yelling for help but there was no one to help him excep that younger boy. The younger boy thought for a second and took the rope tied to well to fetch water and threw it down to elder boy, the e...

Many of us blame our circumstances for not accomplishing our tasks and blaming our circumstances is common in our very own society. Whenever we fail at something we blame our conditions be it physical/mental or financial, but believe me none of these conditions or circumstances matter if you are determined to do something because the same boiling water that softens the potato hardens the egg so ITS NOT ABOUT THE CIRCUMSTANCES ITS ALL ABOUT WHAT YOU ARE MADE OF. Allow me to narrate a short story: "There was a huge company consisting of 500 employes, one day there was a letter on each employes table written by manager to them. The letter read: " The person who was hindering your promotion and was coming forth against your success is now dead. Please attend his funeral at the following address and time". After reading the letter everyone was a bit sad about the death of that person and on the other side they were also happy as the person who was stopping them from being s...

Everybody in this world including you have always got a question " How Can I achieve Success?". A man in medieval times also asked the same question from The Great Philosopher Aristotle and Aristotle asked the man to meet him at the river-bank the next morning. The next morning both of them met at the river-bank than suddenly Aristotle pushed the man in the river.The man was shouting for help as he was drowning and was trying to inhale as much air as he could to prevent himself from drowning.After sometime Aristotle took him out of water.Now the man was enraged and furious upon Aristotle's such a foolish and childish deed and wanted an explanation for it. Aristotle replied"you got your answer" now the man was confused and requested the Aristotle for the detailed explanation.Upon man's request Aristotle explaned that " When you were drowning you were inhaling as much air as you could so that you can survive the same thing applies in law of success, ...